Posted On: August 31, 2008

Rehabilitative Alimony

Rehabilitative Alimony

The purpose of rehabilitative alimony is to permit the spouse to re enter the workforce to permit them support themselves in a reasonable time. Types of expenditures include college tuition or the job training expenses for their ex-spouse. The term of the alimony depends on many factors such as how long the spouse has been out of the workforce and the extent of training and schooling needed. The main difference between rehabilitative and permanent alimony is the temporary nature of rehabilitative alimony.

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Posted On: August 29, 2008

Permanent Alimony

What is permanent alimony?

Permanent alimony is for spouses of long term marriages, over ten years, who have become accustomed to a certain lifestyle due to income or children issues. The purpose of this alimony is to assure that the spouse maintains the lifestyle to which she has become accustomed. As is the case in all family law issues the court will do what is considered fair to the litigants after a careful analysis of all the facts. The following is a list of factors that the court will probably look at in making any decision.

1. Parties need and ability to pay;
2. Length of the marriage;
3. Age and health of the litigants;
4. The standard of living and the chances on maintaining that with alimony;
5. Earning and employability issues of the litigants;
6. How long has the seeking spouse has been out of the job market;
7. Who cares for the children;
8. What are the options for training to enter the workforce;
9. The history of the financial or non-financial contributions;
10. What is the status of any equitable distribution;
11. Availability of income to litigants;
12. Tax concerns
13. Any other factors which the court may deem relevant.

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Posted On: August 28, 2008

Divorce Statistics: When Do Couples Remarry?

Divorce Statistics: When do Couples remarry?


According to internet sources the median number of years people wait to remarry after their first divorce is about 3.3 years for males and 3.1 years for females.

Only 5% of all marriages reach their 50th anniversary.

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Posted On: August 27, 2008

Are There Different Types of Alimony?

Are There Different Types of Alimony? YES

There are several types of alimony with several different purposes.

Permanent Alimony

Rehabilitative Alimony

Limited Duration Alimony

Reimbursement Alimony

Alimony pendente lite

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Posted On: August 24, 2008

Do Grandparents Have a Right to Visitation?

Do Grandparents Have a Right to Visitation?

No, but the right to apply for a chance for visitation.


It is more of a privilege than a right. The grandparents have the right to apply for visitation and the court will, as it all family law situations will analyze the fairness of the situation and make a decision based on what is best for the child.

The nature of the relationship between the person making the application and the child.

The relationship between the parents and the applicant

The amount of time since the applicant last saw the child

The effect on all the familial relationships pertaining to the child

If there is a divorce the type of time sharing agreement with the parents

Nature of the application, was it made in good or bad faith

History of abuse, sexual or otherwise

Anything else important the court considers relevant

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Posted On: August 19, 2008

Divorce and Social Security

Divorce and Social Security

The rule is that if you are married for 10 years you receive full benefits as the spouse of the worker. If you are not marries 10 years then you are not entitled to any benefits.

Social Security Administration.

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Posted On: August 16, 2008

Stopping a Divorce: Can it be done?

Can I stop my spouse form divorcing me?

Legally you will not be able to stop your spouse from obtaining a Judgment of Divorce. If your spouse has filed for divorce using one of the proper causes of action, the divorce will be granted. You may want to consider marriage counseling if you do not want the divorce. Just be aware that you cannot force your spouse into counseling.


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Posted On: August 14, 2008

How much money does my spouse earn?

How much money does my spouse earn?

In most cases, the income of both parties can be determined by looking at recent tax returns, pay stubs and recent W-2s. Determination of income becomes more difficult if you own your own business or work at a job receiving tips or commissions. Also, if you own rental properties or investment properties income can be difficult to establish. You can always hire an expert accountant to do an analysis of income if your situation is complicated.

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Posted On: August 13, 2008

How Enforceable Is A Prenuptial Agreement?

How Enforceable Is A Prenuptial Agreement?

The answer is that a prenuptial is tough to break. Standard contract principles apply. Was the agreement voluntarily entered and/or is it unconsionable? This is more than just unfair but really, really, unfair,

Courts have looked at many cases but the determinative factor as to the unconscionably is the lifestyle of the spouse looking to challenge the prenuptial agreement.

In Jacobitti v. Jacobitti the wife was bound to a wheelchair and the court held that under the circumstances it was unfair to enforce the prenuptial agreement.

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Posted On: August 12, 2008

Divorce Statistics: Custodial Parents.

2003 Divorce Statistics

Either Separated or Divorced
43.7% of custodial mothers
56.2% of custodial fathers were either separated or divorced.
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Posted On: August 10, 2008

Divorce Court

Divorce Court is is part of the Chancery Division which means there are special rules. The special rules are that the Judge makes the rules. The Judges follow a set of guidelines for each issue. Who gets the kids. How much support is awarded. How much alimony. Visitation.

The court is guided by equity or equitable principles that when applied are fair to all the litigants and the children. There are certain principles that the court has to enforce, such as the best interests of the children, but the application of this equitable principle is at the sound discretion of the judge.

Chancery Division, Family part has a great web site that provides assistance in both answering questions and providing free guidance.


Posted On: August 7, 2008

Divorce Statistics: Age of First Divorce

Median age at first divorce: 2003

Males: 30.5
Females: 29

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Posted On: August 6, 2008

Dissipation of Marital Assets

Is property is subject to equitable distribution even if "spent" by a spouse


The Legislature did not define ‘dissipation’ of marital property [when it required the courts to look to the issue under N.J.S.A. 2A:34-23.1. It is clear however that the concept is a plastic one, suited to fit the demands of the individual case...Dissipation may be found where a spouse uses marital property for his or her own benefit and for a purpose unrelated to the marriage at the time when the marriage relationship was in serious jeopardy.” Kothari v. Kothari, 255 N.J. Super. 500, 507 (1992).

“In resolving this issue, courts have considered a variety of factors, including, ‘most commonly,’ the following:

(1) the proximity of the expenditure to the parties' separation,
(2) whether the expenditure was typical of expenditures made by the parties prior to the breakdown of the marriage,
(3) whether the expenditure benefited the "joint" marital enterprise or was for the benefit of one spouse to the exclusion of the other, and
(4) the need for, and amount of, the expenditure.” Id.

“The question ultimately to be answered by a weighing of these considerations is whether the assets were expended by one spouse with the intent of diminishing the other spouse's share of the marital estate.” Id.

If you are about to be divorced or in the process of separation be careful what you spend because you might have to pay some of it back to your spouse.

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Posted On: August 3, 2008

Irreconcilable Differences:

Irreconcilable Differences: N.J.S.A. 2A:34-2(i). This is a new cause of action that was passed in New Jersey in January 2007. New Jersey waited a long time to get this particular statute. Simply stated, people can now get divorced without having to wait out an 18 month separation and without having to blame the other party. Irreconcilable differences requires that the parties have differences that led to the breakdown of the marriage and there is no reasonable prospect of reconciliation.

As an attorney, I was grateful to see this law passed because prior to January 2007, if you wanted to file for divorce and you had not been separated for 18 months, you had to say pretty awful things about the other party in your Complaint for Divorce. That is no longer the case with this mew statute. The Complaint is the first paperwork that your spouse will receive concerning dissolution of the marriage. It can be a very emotional document that has the power to turn a fairly amicable situation into a nightmare. This new cause of action has taken a lot of the emotion out of the Complaint which has helped keep the peace during a very volatile time.

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Posted On: August 1, 2008

Grounds for Divorce: Adultry

Adultery:

Yes, you can divorce your spouse for adultery. However, it generally will not affect the distribution of assets and only tends to exacerbate an already unstable situation. Adultery does not need to be corroborated and can be proven using evidence such as the inclination to commit adultery and the opportunity to commit adultery. The courts have ruled that gay and lesbian relationships did constitute adultery and that condoning the cheating is not a defense. However, as I said earlier, the cause of action plays a very small role in the ultimate outcome of the case, and should not be asserted to intentionally make the situation worse. It will not help you in the long run.

These are some stats on adultery in this country