Posted On: July 27, 2008

What about my life and health insurance?

What about my life and health insurance?

Generally, if you are carrying life insurance and you are required to pay child support or alimony in the divorce settlement, you will be required to keep that particular policy. The courts will look at this policy as insuring your responsibilities. The age of the children, term of alimony, age of the parties and amount of each responsibility will generally dictate the amount of insurance required. These factors will also control who must be named as the beneficiary of the policy.

If you are covered under your spouse’s health insurance policy, that coverage will terminate after the Judgment of Divorce. You can either obtain insurance through your own employer or inquire into COBRA benefits through your spouse’s employer. Children can be covered by you or your spouse. The best thing to do is to keep the children insured under the policy with the most comprehensive coverage.
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Posted On: July 21, 2008

Who pays for the lawyer if my spouse controls the money?

Who pays for the lawyer if my spouse controls the money?

If your spouse controls the finances and you do not have access to funds to pay your attorney, you may ask the Court to release marital funds to pay counsel fees. You can also ask the court to require your spouse to contribute to your counsel fees. The court may consider (1) the financial circumstances of the parties; (2) the ability of the parties to pay their own fees or to contribute to the fees of the other party; (3) the reasonableness and good faith of the positions advances by the parties; (4) the extent of fees incurred by both parties; (5) any fees previously awarded; (6) the amount of fees previously paid to counsel by each party; (7) the results obtained; (8) the degree to which fees were incurred to enforce existing orders or to compel discovery; and (9) any other factor bearing on the fairness of the award. R. 5:3-5. Additionally, in the case William v. Williams, 59 N.J. 229, 233 (1971), the court must consider the need of the applicant, the other party’s ability to pay and the good or bad faith of both parties.
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Posted On: July 20, 2008

Do I get more money if my spouse is cheating?

Do I get more money if my spouse is cheating?

Adultery will not effect the distribution of assets in most cases and does not add to your potential alimony claim. There are some exceptions to this rule. For example, if your spouse has generated debt based on the extramarital affair you may be able to avoid responsibility for that particular liability. However, you should not expect to get a large alimony settlement just because your spouse was unfaithful.


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Posted On: July 17, 2008

Can my spouse be arrested for non payment of alimony or child support?

Can my spouse be arrested for non payment of alimony or child support?

Yes. If you are afraid that your spouse may not make the payments required you should request that the Department of Probation monitor your case. Probation will be able to keep a record of the arrears (back money due) that you spouse owes you. Once the arrears begin to accumulate, Probation can ask for a hearing and can request that an arrest warrant be issued.

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Posted On: July 15, 2008

Can I use my maiden name again?

Can I use my maiden name again?

Absolutely. All you need to do is let your attorney know that you would like to return to your maiden name. The Final Judgment of Divorce will have a provision giving you the right to your former name. If you already have a Final Judgment of Divorce that does not contain a name change provision, you can contact a lawyer to add an addendum to the divorce decree.



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Posted On: July 13, 2008

Is there any benefit to hire a private investigator to catch my spouse cheating?

Is there any benefit to hire a private investigator to catch my spouse cheating?

Not really. Going through a divorce is an extremely personal and emotional time for most people. Hiring a private investigator to catch your spouse cheating is only going to add to the emotional strain on the parties involved and generally will not effect the distribution of assets. In my experience, it causes more harm than good.

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Posted On: July 10, 2008

When is my child emancipated and what does this mean?

When is my child emancipated and what does this mean?

Emancipation simply means that the parents no longer have a financial obligation for child support under the law. Children are deemed emancipated upon the earliest happening of any of the following event
a. If he or she reached the age of eighteen (18) years if not in high school or completion of four (4), full-time, continuous academic years of college education, whichever last occurs;
b. Marriage;
c. Permanent residence away from either parent;
d. Death;
e. Entry into any armed forces of any country, whether voluntary or involuntary;
f. Engaging in full time employment upon or after the child=s attaining the age of eighteen (18) years of age, except if the full time employment is during vacation and/or summer periods.


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Posted On: July 6, 2008

What happens if my spouse refuses to pay for me or the kids?

What happens if my spouse refuses to pay for me or the kids?

If you have a court which requires your former spouse to pay alimony or child support, you may file a motion to enforce that order is he or she is refusing to pay. The court has numerous remedies at it’s discretion including an award of counsel fees, additional monetary fines, and jail. The court can also attach to wages or other assets that the violator may have including retirement accounts. However, it is rare for a Judge to jail an individual who is not paying support.


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